Gotta share this, a great essay on the current “cosplay” popularity.
Back home from Dragoncon 2013 and I’m going through the typical post-con depression when I noticed some friends talking about getting their badges for next year now. However when I was finishing up the weekend in Atlanta I had just had a discussion about going ahead and skipping the next year.
All this got me thinking, why do I need this weekend? All year, I think about what an amazing time I’ve had before, and how much fun it will be the next time around, but why?
Every year I feel like I miss about 10 percent or more of the people I intend to see. And every year I have more and more friends, so that 10 percent becomes a larger and larger number.
First of all I want to experiment, if I don’t have that one weekend a year from now to plan towards, would I be more likely to make the time to see these people? I think so.
Then there’s the obvious, absence makes the heart grow fonder. If I skip a year, 2 years from this past weekend I “SHOULD” have the time of my life!
Finally, it almost guarantees I can afford and make the time for Star Wars Celebration in April 2015. Star Wars costuming and fandom community means so much to me, everyone I’ve met in it, or met as a result of it are like family to me, and I love every moment with them. A visit to California would bring me closer to some I’ve only seen once or twice in my life. So I want to look forward to that.
But why do I need these events in the first place, why do I need to be surrounded by 30,000+ friends. Because it’s just that, friends. Perfect strangers are never strangers when you have something in common, be it costume building, Star Wars, 80’s cartoon nostalgia, there’s always something to find common ground on. Don’t get me wrong, it’s never perfect, but it sure is damn near perfect.
In 2013 I look forward to “normal” size cons, parties, movie nights, and general get togethers. In 2015 I’ll look forward to absolute insanity again, and I can’t wait! In the meantime, I’ll enjoy my corners of social media to bring the wide world of geekdom a little closer in my mind.
And thank you Dragoncon 2013 for being so awesome, you have inspired me creatively, emotionally, and healthfully. I really needed this after the rest of the year so far.
He-Man and She-ra Photos by Mandy Hughes, Charal and Necromonger by Anna Rossmann.
On May 21st, 2010 Salomé Cabaret gave me a chance to express myself in ways at the time I could have only imagined. Now, on May 29, 2013 once again they assist me in my dreams of pursuing an art that so few get to experience, by traveling to Burlesque Hall of Fame Weekend in Las Vegas.
I’ve lived more than half my life trying to surround myself with like minded people who love the things I love, going to conventions and costuming as characters from some of my favorite movies, tv shows, and literature, so when burlesque began to crossover into that culture, I couldn’t resist and dip my toes into that proverbial pool of talent and stardust. I’ve never looked back.
These communities are my family, my friends, my companions down the roads of uncertainty and imagination, heartache and passions. So today I look forward towards the horizon and say, “Thank you for encouraging me to be me, now let’s have some more fun!”
Now that I’ve had some time to decompressed, here’s some thoughts about the “epic con trip” we just partook:
On day 11 I decided that 10 days was my limit. By day 12 I was sick. If they ever schedule Star Wars Celebration that close to Dragoncon again, that will be the first year I skip Dragoncon OR at least go home between.
I say this every year, but next year I’m ONLY bringing one major costume. I mean it this time. I missed a lot of hang outs with some friends to wear other costumes that I didn’t even get decent pictures in.
Jon and I got to participate a little in the greatest proposal of our friends Chris and Leah at the Rebel Legion group photo!
Celebration 6 was better than I remember C3 being, I will definitely be going back to Florida for C7!
Epic costuming is fun, even if people don’t remember the movie! The second day I went 6 hours in Charal from Ewok 2 Battle for Endor!
People REALLY like science fiction mash-ups, $15000 like (my husband made Epimetheus Fett):
Dragon*con burlesque is EPIC, performing it feels epic! A huge thank you to Talloolah Love!